Sometimes you might want to surprise your partner with something different and special. All you need is a little imagination and creativity. Having a sexual routine isn’t bad. But it is important to mix things up every once in a while to help you learn and explore what you enjoy. Play these games that’ll make you concentrate on the journey, resulting in a final act that’s especially fun.
Do you know the board game “Twister”? Try it in your bedroom. It’s the classic you know and love, only with less clothing. Every time somebody falls, they have to remove a layer. It’s a fun way to show off your flexibility, and who knows—you may discover new positions. Buy the classic game in the ultimate size to make it more interesting.
Share your fantasies with each other using a hat or a bowl. Each of you will write down fantasies you have yet to share with your partner, like having sex in a certain part of the house or trying out a new position. Put the slips of paper into the hat, then take turns unfolding them one by one. Sharing fantasies will bring you closer together, and you’ll get to try out a whole bunch of new, super-sexy things.
How about role-playing? A large bag full of costume props—for example, a fireman’s hat, a cheerleader’s skirt, and a maid’s feather duster. Reach into the bag. Whichever prop you grab is a role-play fantasy you have to act out. There’s nothing wrong with indulging in some cheesy porn stereotypes. And a little role play never hurt anybody! Work up to more elaborate costumes and start with low-pressure accessories like a hat.
Blindfold your partner. Lead him to the bed or another location. Then proceed to ravish him—slowly, recklessly, teasingly—however you feel like doing it. You call the shots. Let his arousal be your guide. Not being able to see during sex has two major effects: it dramatically increases both sensitivity and psychological vulnerability. Either one is a powerful aphrodisiac.
Use neckties to play sexy games. He ties your wrists and ankles to the bedposts and has his way with you. It can be incredibly erotic to be completely powerless, to be the absolute center of his attention, and to have no responsibility for or sway over what happens.
Truth or dare, why not? Use this as an opportunity to learn more about your partner and try your craziest sex fantasies. Take turns playing the classic game, making sure your requests really reveal what you want. Turns out Truth or Dare shouldn’t have been left behind in middle school. Any couple can make it a very sexual game that leads to lots of laughter, fun, and carefree lovemaking. If you need some inspiration or are feeling shy, use a special game set to get you started.
Any game you choose, it will make a great difference to your sexual routine. You’ll definitely have fun and bring something new to your relationship.
